are you kidding me -- but this Sunday is setting up to be smashing. Can anyone stop United? Is Mile High Club really a game away from the Cup final? Lots to talk about ... let's get to it.
REMEMBERING MOOCH
OK, for those of you who asked about my recent absence, no I did not get fired. Sorry.
Truth is, I wasn't sure how to get back to writing this column after the death of Mooch Myernick. For those of you who don't know me away from this column, I worked for the Colorado Rapids from 1997-2000 and had the pleasure of calling Mooch not only a co-worker but a dear friend (and that list is countless, by the way, that's the kind of guy he was).
While my relationship with Mooch began with soccer when I was hired by the team, that is hardly where it ended. As much as he taught me about the game, I remember Mooch - and I still can't believe he is gone as I write this - for what he taught me about being a good person, a good father, son, brother, and friend. I hope my son turns out like that. We all do.
Mooch was the kind of guy you didn't want to let down, even though he wouldn't hold it against you anyway. I once lost 30 pounds and got in the best shape of my life with his inspiration and guidance, and my motivation was literally to make him proud of me.
When I finished my first half-marathon soon after his death last month - a full 12 minutes better than my aggressive goal for the race - I did so knowing I never could have done it without him getting me started way back when. That was for you, Mooch. You have to go easy on the fat jokes, now. Don't worry, I'm still short, Jewish, a hick from Minnesota and really, really slow ... so all the other ones still apply.
To know how many people Mooch touched, all you had to do was read the outpouring of emotion from the media and fans in the papers and online after we lost him. Incredible. Back in Denver after he fell ill, I went to the Rapids-Red Bulls game that Saturday night and had the pleasure of talking with fans who had taken the time to make homemade signs supporting Mooch. Most of them had maybe met him once or twice, but he had made such an impression that they were moved to act somehow. Exactly.
Ironically, soccer coaches often push their players to "play faster," but Mooch was always about taking an extra moment, no matter how busy he was. One of his pet sayings that I have absolutely stolen to this day is: "We're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time." He was all about that extra moment.
An extra moment to talk to a kid as he signed an autograph. An extra moment to hold the door open for someone coming behind him. An extra moment to ask you about your family. An extra moment to brag about his kids. An extra moment to crack a joke, even in a tense time. An extra moment to enjoy how lucky we all are.
And now, while we are left with memories and lessons from all those moments, there is no way of writing this gracefully: it absolutely sucks what happened.
But for those of us who were graced with his friendship, it's really a time to be thankful. Thankful that we had a friend to learn so much from. To bring it back to a soccer reference, he was someone who -- like a really good player -- made everyone around him better.
So I apologize for being away for a few weeks; it frankly took a while for me to try and be light-hearted again when it came to soccer. And the funny thing is, Mooch wouldn't be happy about that all.
All he'd want me to do is go home, crack a nice bottle of wine, sit down and put my arms around my wife and son, flip on a game ... and take a moment.
Now that's what Mooch is all about. How great is that?
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